Friday, April 18, 2008

The steps of love..

A Touching Love Story from China


An incredible love story has come out of China recently and managed to touch the world. It is a story of a man and an older woman who ran off to live and love each other in peace for over half a century.

Over 50 years ago, Liu, a 19 year-old boy, fell in love with a 29 year-old widowed mother named Xu. At that time, it was unacceptable and immoral for a young man to love an older woman. To avoid the market gossip, the couple decided to elope and lived in a cave in Jiangjin County in Southern ChongQing area. In the beginning, they had nothing, no electricity or even food. They had to eat grass and roots they found in the mountain, and Liu made a kerosene lamp that they used to light up their lives. In the second year of living in the mountain, Liu began and continued for over 50 years, to hand-carve the steps so that his wife could get down the mountain easily. Half a century later in 2001, a group of adventurers were exploring the forest and were surprised to find the elderly couple and the over 6,000 hand-carved steps. The couple had lived in peace for over 50 years until last week. Liu, now 72 years, returned from his daily farm work and collapsed. Xu sat and prayed with her husband As he passed away in her arms. So in love with Xu, was Liu, that no one was able to release the grip he had on his wife's hand even after he had passed away. In 2006, their story had became one of the top 10 love stories from China, collected by the Chinese Women Weekly. The local government has decided to preserve the love ladder and the place they lived as a museum, so this love story can live forever.











I have to suppress my tears from falling down.Cause I'm in a public place right now.So I don't think i want to make a scene here.Right, this an email I receive from my friend. It makes me wonder on life with this story..I'll share my thoughts some other time if not I will for surely cry.Oh no I'm getting teary now.Have to go.



Just wanted to share this today.

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Closet

I just read a blog...It really touches me of what the person wrote. He just came out of the closet. It maybe took him so much courage to do that. Well I find it very brave. And really it touches me.
He mention the hardship he went through, well in a way he was saying that he was in denial.And how he came to admit it.And after that he found his other half.They had a hard time telling it to their families, but their families has accepted them. I feel happy for them. And I feel happy they found each other. I pray for your happiness. And I also pray for all the people in this world.

Quote "If you ever find the one you love, never let them go"

See you soon.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Rainbow and Sunshine

There will be a wonderful win-win situation developing today for you and someone you often have to negotiate with. The two of you make a good partnership, but from time to time you do have to bargain your way through things. Luckily, this time what you want is almost identical to what they want! So no one will have to sacrifice anything for the other person, and no one will end up feeling guilty because they're getting their way at someone else's expense.






Just need to assure myself that I am strong. Things in life aren't beautiful ofcourse we know that. What I said in my las t blog penitence will always be a part of our life.
Ganbatte! ganbatte! ganbatte!
Kawaii ne...

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Penitence

What in life do we always overlook. Me myself have no idea..So why am I babbling here about??


Just want to share some bits here.Today sucks as usual. But life has to go on right.

Everyday of our life what things do we regret of doing, not doing, saying things or not saying anything. we always want to find answer in our doing. And after that there is penitence.

It is a part of our life. Do you have penitence?I have. People bullying you and you never have the urge to fight back and regrets after of not defending yourself. Regrets saying things you shouldn't say or telling someone the truth only to break their hearts.


What should we do? A life mystery. You think you have the answer and maybe solve it. But it will still happen in the future. But life without penitence will be very dull.Or people without penitence is not human at all.


Just look on the bright side.There is still room to change.Nobody is perfect afterall.

Sorry if I babble nonsense, you can skip this nonsense.(Whenever was I not babbling)


Off to bed..Oyasuminasai

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

How Sweet??

I decided not to go on that trip to Labuan. I change my mind the last minute.





I minded something being by someone...Well I know she meant it as a joke maybe.But for me it kinda harsh.So being the stubborn me I cancelled it. I was really hurt.


Aish whatever..Let me try to forget bout it..





Oh how sweet??Lets just say it's bitter.





Let's see a video...Taken in Dec 2004





Monday, March 24, 2008

Holiday Holiday...

Libra

March 24, 2008

If you find your companions a bit too stodgy, today is the day to jostle them out of their complacency. You may enjoy experimenting with a bit of naughtiness. For example, how will the people around you react if you transgress certain taboos, such as talking openly about sex? Since you're quite comfortable with the subject, why not have fun stretching the limits of convention?

Friendster's reading

Your generous, caring nature may tempt you to jump into the fray, today. You hope to make peace! But you should try hard to resist this urge -- even if you think resisting will make people think that you are selfish. You can do more good for everyone (including yourself) if you keep away from controversy or conflict right now. It's not stingy to want to keep the energy you have for yourself. In fact, it's a very wise strategy. Especially when only the troublemakers can forge real peace.

Ohayo Gozaimasu..
Minasan, ogenki desu ka? Watashi genki desu..


Oh I'm just practicing my Japanese. It's just minor.. Neways..we are having the 1st term holiday which eventually ends this Sunday oh and it started last Thursday.

So many happened the last few weeks. My laptop isn't here.How I miss my laptop soooooo much. Kore wa watashi no ane no rappu tappu desu (This is my sister's laptop). Which I am borrowing secretly in the morning like now.Hehehe.. I hope my laptop will be ok by today.Argghhhh I miss it soooo much. And oh my girlfriends are going to Labuan and i'm going with them tomorrow.Yahooooo..Its only going to be a 1day trip. But I haven't been there since I was young. which probably about 20+yrs ago...OMG i feel so old. But I haven't told my friends yet that I'll be joining them, I'll tell them later. I had to borrow some money from my sister for this short trip(Why am I telling this). Well anyway..I can't wait to go.YAY YAY YAY *jumps on the chair. I need some fresh air too.

Oh how I need a massage now.And i'm craving for ice cream..Maybe i'll bring out my girlfriend later for icecream. And today my friend's son is having an operation. I haven't heard anything bout it yet.I'll give her text later. Oh my shoulder aches so much....And I'm hungry havent had breakfast yet.

LALALALALALALALALA...Ok going to have breakfast now.I can't go online too long with my sis lappy..So see you soon..Ganbatte kudasai ne!! Ja ne.

Monday, March 3, 2008

What time of the month??

Aish what time of the month is it??


I am listening to Jaejoong's version of INSA or Fly Away. It really got me teary eye. Not that the whole group's singing didn't got to me, maybe it was Jae's voice. Or Jae's music was more slower? Arghhh overall that song is soooo beautiful.. It was taken from Hyun Bin's movie Millionaire's first love. That movie was a tear jerker. It was in 2006? Can't remember.


Speaking of movies where have the good movies gone to. I can't seem to find any movies that sticks in my heart. Argghh whatever..I just want to ramble for nothing here. Ignore this..

Bye bye